The title is misleading. Just saying. Since no money was involved and cost of time and gas are not part of the deal (that's on you), it's not technically a scam. He didn't profit out of your wasted time + gas.
Inconsiderate, yes. Shady, yes. Flake, maybe. Scammer, no since no money was involved and no money was taken.
No one goes around scamming people for time and gas wasted. Moat reefers are flakers, it's a reality. I've driven to San Diego myself and having that possibility of being stood up. But luckily, people show up.
Unfortunately, this is the nature of the hobby. It use to be a tight community, now it's like the wild west. No wonder no one buys from anyone anymore. No more trust or dedication. Sucks.
I do have to admit thought why he hasn't responded, hmmnn.
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