i've only used an aquarium service once, when my bulkheads started leaking and my room flooded because of it, it was too much for me to handle and i was more than happy to have the pros come take care of it, i was very happy with the service.
but for everything else, i do myself and like everyone said above, take pride in it. my tank wouldn't feel like mine if i didn't put the work and attention i do into it.
i love when people ask me, how much time do you spend on this a week and i'm like hours and then they freak out lol. unfortunately, they don't get it's by choice lol