i been divorced for more then ten years now, and the daughter is 14 now and is realizing that I have been the one parent that has gone out of my way to try to accomidate her. My ex is always tired, and never drops off or picks up, it is always me. I take her to all the doctors appts, I go to all the events, pta, open houses, scholl plays... The ex is always tired...
Now it is just so automatic that my daughter stays here for days and weeks on end, til she realizes she hasnt seen her mom for a while, then she goes over there for a night or two..
Anyways, I knew what I was getting into when I effed the woman, and it was planned for at the time we concieved. Which was after several years of marriage and courtship... The only thing I got wrong, was that Ibelieved her when we talked aobut each iof our brother and sisters and how they got divorced and used the kids as pawns...
I fell for that hook line and sinker... That was the first thing she did was try to file a restraining order against me, which the courts did not grant, (She got eh original TEMPORARY order but failed to prevail in the following hearing... Oh well, that was the last time I got a victory in court...