If you want to completely nuke the rocks, I would do it this way:
1. Soak the rocks in bleach solution for a couple of days.
2. Rinse with tapwater, and soak again in tapwater for a day or two (save RO for later).
3. Blast the rocks with a garden hose to get all the dead matter and detritus out. Turn the rocks over and hit them from every possible angle.
4. Soak in RO water. You might need to replace the RO water and re-soak.
5. Air dry for a few days to make sure you really get all the bleach out.
It may be overkill but if you want to kill it anyway, then make sure it is really dead.
How much sand do you have? and what kind? Sometimes cleaning and reusing sand may end up being more trouble than starting with new dry sand.