too much of an open ended question. pictures can help though.
if i can see an overhead of your condo unit, and a picture of the room you're putting it in, i can tell you pretty accurately how your floor joists are run.
it'd also be nice to see if there's a wall under where you want to place the tank.
GENERAL rule of thumb for condo is that you want to place the tank adjacent to the party wall as that will be full height with minimal / no penetrations, so it'll be the strongest wall. floor joists will run 16" on center so you want to spread the load out over as many joists as you can. you should be able to find joists with a stud finder the same way you find wall studs.
with "modern" construction standards, 120g with 40g sump will be fine. 150g with a 40g sump is probably pushing your luck.