Honestly I would be happy if it just didn't match, but the stain looks horrible. It's super patchy, and there's runs from the top coat. I wish I had just left it bare wood. I guarantee u I could have stained it nicer....now I have to sand it all down and redo it. Debating whether I should do it myself or pay someone. Anyone good at staining?
that really sucks.
I haven't stained my own stand yet because it's such a PITA. it requires a lot of patience.
did your guy use a polyurethane stain+sealer in one? i personally really
DISLIKE those. you either have to do several coats really thin, or a few thicker coats but with heavy sanding between. both ways are super labor intensive (and very time consuming).
personally, i use the water based stain, brush and wipe, let dry (quite fast if it's water based stain), recoat - once i get the stain to the color i want, then i go over it with 2-3 coats of thin poly and sand with progressively finer grit (start with 200 -> 400 -> 800).
sanding it down and re-staining shouldn't be too bad, but sealing it will be a pain since you won't be able to brush it on on a flat surface, which means you'll either get runs, or you have to apply some SUPER THIN coats, which means A LOT of coats..