Ended up losing this clutch entirely, I think I had my airstone config wrong in the rearing tank. Initially too not enough circulation around eggs, I corrected this a day too late and they ended up turning white (dead).
Good news is it looks like she is going to lay again today or tomorrow, she is huge again and they are both cleaning aggressively. My gold stripe maroons are cleaning aggressively too as of this weekend, I think they are going to go soon to, so I may have more than I bargained for.
This time I am going to let it run its course and leave the eggs to hatch in the tank. That way I will know the number of days their eggs take to hatch (normally pretty consistent but depends on the pair from what I understand). I will then use the flashlight method to collect - a couple of hours after lights out, come in and shine a flashlight in the corner of the tank and collect the fry in a cup.