steve is completely right...
all of the frag swaps i've been too have been with a lot of people, but if you look at it, it was only like 10 people really hanging out and talking... everyone else that was there was there to buy and split... that's it... it sucked... more sassage for the rest... but they were kinda fail...
i know the lowrider community always has picnics and stuff, and they don't always bring their cars or crap... they just all go with their club shirts, get fat and drunk and listen to music... freaken epic... something like that should be awesome... but it always feels like reef people won't show up unless there's either a great deal, or a raffle of some sort... that kinda sucks...
next weekend i'm going to lake elsinore for a chicken meet... a bunch of us chicken people hang out in a park and swap/sell birds stuff... but after all of that is done, we walk around and discuss said chickens and other stories... it's fun... we take pictures, talk about our birds, and once it gets dark, we start to pick up and leave... it's an all day event for most of us... some won't sell anything... but it's just nice to go out and socialize with our own kind...
OMG 13,000th post... yay... and it was somewhat meaningful... not a IBTL or anything... hahahksldjflkasdjflksadjfkl;asjf